The Year was 2011
My opinion from my side of the "table"
In my understanding, one's opinion on certain things is very dynamic by nature. When someone says that they have a very strong opinion about/against someone or something, I believe they lack perspective. Its very conservative to have an opinion without being on the other side. A strong opinion remains strong till you are on your side of the court. When the tables are turned, ends are changed, and you found yourself in the unknown territory, your opinion starts changing. But the problem is that the possibility of one being on the both sides of table are very rare. So here is my opinion on some of the interesting developments in past year from my side of the table.
PART I
First and the most dearest to any "Indian" heart "Cricket". By the time summer was over, everyone was praising England for their grand victory on India in test and one days. Everywhere you read, it was all about how good English team is, how they deserve to be world champions, and so on. The scenario changed when India beat England 4-0 in the home games. This time around, all the critics who praised English team started talking about how India is "ONLY" better playing at home, and not very good playing away games. So when India lost to England in England, it was because English team is better team, but when they won at home games, it because they had home advantage?? Well, what about the home advantage England "chaps" had while playing at home?? What about they also loosing "all" their away games, while winning only home games with India??
Capital punishment: Few months back there was video which surfaced about a father hitting his daughter, followed by famous "Tiger Mom", and finally couple weeks back there was news about "Wolf Dad". All this immediately followed by heavy discussion on whether capital punishment should be banned, if it is good or bad. Now I agree that "extreme" case of child abuse is not tolerable at all. But there is a huge difference between "child abuse" and "punishment". The problem with "capital punishment" these "Westerners" think is that it affects child's mental health. My first reaction to all this was "come on, are you guys kidding me, are you so sissy, that you cant even manage some punishment?, bull shit". I grew up in the environment where punishment in the school was very common, the heck, those of you who knows me from school days know that I was part of every punishment possible, but I turned out all right. I had no mental issues, I am as screwed up as I was born. Punishment did not affected my mental health, if at all anything it made my schooling most amazing days of my life. I remembered incidence from short story "Chitale Master" by P.L.Deshpande. The author writes how teacher was strict, and how his parents trusted his teacher than him. At times, if the author was punished by teacher, he is to get more punishment from his parents.
The most over-hyped pregnancy of the year: I dont understand the media attraction and attention given to the whole "First Family" of bollywood. I have no two minds about Amitabh Bachchan being one of the most accomplished and popular actor of century. But at the same time, I have no doubts about Abhishek Bachchan being the best "worse actor" and most "over hyped" person in bollywood. Having said that, I did not understand all the fuss about Aishwarya's pregnancy. The most ridiculous part was that people were suggesting names, I am pretty sure by this time there will be a site dedicated to what will be the name of "baby B". If not at least a dedicated facebook page be surely there.
To be continued....
My opinion from my side of the "table"
In my understanding, one's opinion on certain things is very dynamic by nature. When someone says that they have a very strong opinion about/against someone or something, I believe they lack perspective. Its very conservative to have an opinion without being on the other side. A strong opinion remains strong till you are on your side of the court. When the tables are turned, ends are changed, and you found yourself in the unknown territory, your opinion starts changing. But the problem is that the possibility of one being on the both sides of table are very rare. So here is my opinion on some of the interesting developments in past year from my side of the table.
PART I
First and the most dearest to any "Indian" heart "Cricket". By the time summer was over, everyone was praising England for their grand victory on India in test and one days. Everywhere you read, it was all about how good English team is, how they deserve to be world champions, and so on. The scenario changed when India beat England 4-0 in the home games. This time around, all the critics who praised English team started talking about how India is "ONLY" better playing at home, and not very good playing away games. So when India lost to England in England, it was because English team is better team, but when they won at home games, it because they had home advantage?? Well, what about the home advantage England "chaps" had while playing at home?? What about they also loosing "all" their away games, while winning only home games with India??
Capital punishment: Few months back there was video which surfaced about a father hitting his daughter, followed by famous "Tiger Mom", and finally couple weeks back there was news about "Wolf Dad". All this immediately followed by heavy discussion on whether capital punishment should be banned, if it is good or bad. Now I agree that "extreme" case of child abuse is not tolerable at all. But there is a huge difference between "child abuse" and "punishment". The problem with "capital punishment" these "Westerners" think is that it affects child's mental health. My first reaction to all this was "come on, are you guys kidding me, are you so sissy, that you cant even manage some punishment?, bull shit". I grew up in the environment where punishment in the school was very common, the heck, those of you who knows me from school days know that I was part of every punishment possible, but I turned out all right. I had no mental issues, I am as screwed up as I was born. Punishment did not affected my mental health, if at all anything it made my schooling most amazing days of my life. I remembered incidence from short story "Chitale Master" by P.L.Deshpande. The author writes how teacher was strict, and how his parents trusted his teacher than him. At times, if the author was punished by teacher, he is to get more punishment from his parents.
The most over-hyped pregnancy of the year: I dont understand the media attraction and attention given to the whole "First Family" of bollywood. I have no two minds about Amitabh Bachchan being one of the most accomplished and popular actor of century. But at the same time, I have no doubts about Abhishek Bachchan being the best "worse actor" and most "over hyped" person in bollywood. Having said that, I did not understand all the fuss about Aishwarya's pregnancy. The most ridiculous part was that people were suggesting names, I am pretty sure by this time there will be a site dedicated to what will be the name of "baby B". If not at least a dedicated facebook page be surely there.
To be continued....